I feel torn because part of me wants to sleep with him one last time as if that would give me closure and let me feel like the ending was on my terms. But at the same time I’m so sad and unsure if I’m just clinging to him or secretly hoping it might change his mind. I’m conflicted he’s the only person I crave intimacy with and being such a sexual person this has been incredibly hard for me.
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what you are feeling is not just emotional attachment. it is the pull of a primitive need. sex is not only romance or memory. it is hunger of the body. raw. urgent. and when it is unfed the mind struggles to listen to higher values like dignity. closure. or self respect.
Oof I feel you. It’s tricky, and feeling conflicted is the worst. What would you tell your best friend to do if she came to you with this dilemma?
Don’t. Just don’t.
You’ll regret it. It’ll make you feel hollow.
You won’t get closure from it