why some people make hard for themselves to heal. like they don't delete their photos together and look at them everyday , they don't throw the gifts and anything.
everything reminds them of their ex and maybe its been months they make it hard to themselves.
if u love someone the breakup will be hard
the firts stage its hell you dont wanna eat or do anything you just wanna cry and stay alone there wont be moment he wont cross your mind. but guys you have to keep your shit together you have to face the heartbreak and make it power learn from it and move on
he/she wont be back or even if they will you wont be happy anymore in that relationship bc it ended for a reason.
please make it easier for your heart to heal
please.🫶
Last updated on:2025-12-15T20:35:54+05:30
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i cant delete our photos because i cant even open my gallery yet. even brush my teeth was extensive to me but I trust the process. hopiing we heal from what troubled us sooner 🫶🏽
for me its still painful to even look at our photos right now. i want to heal better and stronger. another part maybe still expects they r back in a while
do you feel like holding onto the photos and gifts makes you feel close to them still, or is it more like you’re scared to let go of what the relationship meant to you?
I didn't say I did that I sad some people
@CozyAndJoy868 this is an AI question, they put them here in some places, and they make no sense. Just being annoying.
This has smth to do with familiarity. People would go for familiar things even if they cause pain. Rather feel smth than feel empty. When the person itself is gone, its hard not to hold to the only remnants of that person. Its like the grave of beloved. You'd still go even if it hurts, bcs feelings were real. Have you come across people who in moment of strength have gotten rid of these reminders prematurely bcs it was causing pain, then regretted it?
actually no. I did delete the photos the day I did breakup and never regretted, never looked back. So no.
why is it that's I can't eat or sleep or celebrate the festive season but his enjoying himself every weekend going out being with friends and family
I just don't understand this at all 5 years together and I'm going through hell while his enjoying himself
Omg I feel you so much in this , I wanted to die and he ? He was partying all night. and seeing him dance and enjoying everything hurted me more . I questioned did he ever loved me. but now that has been awile.Im much better . And I dont care how he is or whatever but I know rn Im good and he is not soo. He had to go through it but he choose to ignore and now he will suffer long time.
@CozyAndJoy868 I feel like I'm depressed I literally can't get myself to leave my house I want him to suffer like I am
@ladyT oh my dear , he will suffer TRUST, but at that point you won't care anymore. heal yourself. f*** him.
@CozyAndJoy868 I literally can't wait for that day to come when tables has turned I really can't take this much longer December really making me miserable I wake up in the morning and just start crying. it's like I'm grieving the life I was supposed to have and now I just feel like il never get married or have children I wasted 5 years with a man to end up 30 year old living alone. all my friends are married everyone has children and here I'm starting over while his living in his new house bachelor pad partying every weekend
not throwing it away right away, just… removing it from my daily life. made breathing a little easier.
i used to scroll through old pics like i was punishing myself. i kept every hoodie, every note, every stupid little thing. i swear i made my own healing ten times harder because i didn’t wanna let go of the fantasy. it really does feel like hell in the beginning.