Helpp..

so guys I meet this guy, I liked him from the beginning he approached me .. then I immediately got super emotional with him in FIRST week I started to talk serious with him I opened so much he pulled away and bc of that I started thinking he doesn't like me anymore and I said to him I dont wanna talk to anyone who its not interested in me enough, I unadd him immediately. after 2:3 weeks I add him again and we started talking he started to show more and more interest and I was keeping a distance like I didnt text him at all or smth.. and now he shows interest tells me that he likes me but doesn't text like every dayy . he has to make an excuse to text me or contact me . and that bothered me I told him yesterday that "someone who likes me texts me" he said he doesn't text me bc thinks Im busy or smth (I told him in the beginning that I dont wanna have someone that will ask to much where Im or smth and 'text' to much) . but idkkk mannn I like him and he likes me too but is it like this confusion?

Last updated on:2025-12-16T00:20:43+05:30

Comments (5)

LostSoul23
LostSoul23 3 mths ago

when he says he likes you but texts less, do you feel reassured by his actions, or is it mostly the words that matter to you?

CozyAndJoy868
CozyAndJoy868 3 mths ago

now that I communicated to him . he texts 24/7 but idk mannn. those boys are weird I know he likes me but Im scared to like him more I dont wanna get hurt again

Anywings
Anywings 3 mths ago

sometimes people show interest differently. he might genuinely like you but isn’t great at daily texting. focus on how he treats you when you’re actually together, not just messages.

angelEMO
angelEMO 3 mths ago

i got super emotional early too and he pulled away. that back-and-forth mess is exhausting but it’s SO relatable. i feel your confusion.

CozyAndJoy868
CozyAndJoy868 3 mths ago

but now he is chasing me .. but I got the ick bc he only wants me for (physical affection)