if youve ben a relationship for years and a had a breakup how did you move on and accept that its over ? I dont know how
Last updated on:2025-12-15T22:09:11+05:30
if youve ben a relationship for years and a had a breakup how did you move on and accept that its over ? I dont know how
Last updated on:2025-12-15T22:09:11+05:30
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what’s the hardest part for you right now — missing them, the routine you had, or just the idea that it’s really over?
I think it's honsetly missing them and the idea that's it over. I broke no contact yesterday just to find out he's with another girl and I try to tell myself the way he choose to heal has nothing to do with my worth. but I wanted him to be my person so badly. he told me to leave him alone so I blocked his number, but I think it's my hope that one day he'd come back that's not letting me move on and I don't know how to stop
for me, it helped to cut contact completely for a while, journal my thoughts, and focus on little daily wins. acceptance doesn’t come overnight, but it sneaks up on you slowly.
i was with someone for 4 years and after the breakup, i kept hoping for a “maybe.” it took months of letting myself cry and just sit with it to start feeling like it was actually over