moving on

go out dear. keep urself busy so you won't think of him that much.wish I can go out with you so ai can also forget the pain he caused me.

Yes please we should never go back to them, they will do just the same and rip our heart apart! Praying is the best thing xx

do you notice any moments or triggers that make the pain spike, or is it just constant right now?

BrightJoy369 3 mths ago

right now it’s just constant

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i gave everything too and it felt like my heart was just ripped out. the thinking never stops at first, it’s brutal.

you have to feel the pain. you will be thinking of him during the grief. but with time the pain will be less. the first weeks will be the hardest ones but you can do it.

Same here, gave him everything. All the time, attention and effort but he started secretly chatting with another girl and started giving me distance on the pretext of being busy. The calls reduced, meetings faded, his attention is no longer on our relationship.He is mostly found online same time as the girl, exact same time stamps through out the day and night, but they both have been denying it since last almost an year. I caught them yeaterday chatting on a movie app but he denied any wrongdoing again and spoke to me in a very bad way. Thats it, I think I had enough now. I want to move on. But the no contact hurts really bad. I can hardly hold my tears. I am feeling very lost.

BrightJoy369 3 mths ago

I feel your pain, your situation is exactly like mine. All the lies and betrayal, I always ask myself why. He could’ve left me alone. Now I’m left to pick up the pieces of loving someone innocently. I also feel very lost, but I pray, everytime my tears are near or I’m overwhelmed with emotion, I pray because at this point only God can walk through this with me, hand in hand. I can’t go back to the same person who broke me

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