I told him to meet me and he said. Hi hope is well why whats up why do we need to meet. I said I have things I want to return to him. he said maybe Wednesday evening on his way to university. I'm freaking out I want actual clarity about our breakup (we broke up nearly 6 weeks ago) how do I handle this
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when you picture this meeting, what are you hoping he’ll say that would actually calm you down right now? like the one sentence you’re waiting for.
I just want to clear the air as we have birthday parties coming up. I have a feeling hes already moved on. we share friend one of the lads said at the beginning he was struggling another said hes 'FINE' and another said he didnt give a f*ck about our relationship
sometimes it comes from noticing how anxious my body gets around the whole situation. i try to keep the meeting short and grounded, for me, not for answers.
i met my ex “just to return things” too and i was shaking the whole day before. i wanted clarity so bad, like one clean answer to make it all make sense. spoiler, it was messy and emotional and i cried in public 😭 but yeah, i’ve been THERE.
We share the same friend group one told me at the beginning of our breakup and a week later another said oh hes 'FINE' bare in mind I didnt ask but then someone else said he didnt give a f*ck about our breakup which i don't know do i believe it we were together 3.5 years. He is very immature and I think that is where the problems started to arise. We returned home to Ireland from New Zealand in September and its like things have gone down hill. his family are also very family orientated. I miss him so much but its also like I haven't grieved the breakup I just miss him so much. I met him 3 days after he broke up with me and we spoke and I tapped his nose i used to always do it and we ended up kissing. I think it was my fault I initiated the kiss. But it wasn't just one kiss it got intimate but nothing further as my friend was waiting for me we were going walking. A week later I saw him out with his friend for drinks in our local town and he came over to me and hugged me. my friend and his friend were looking at him like why. like there will never be any bad blood between him and I but I think I deserve a chat with him before we start attending parties in the new year. When he broke up with me, he told me it's not what he wants but what he needs. I'm actually scared to meet him I feel like he has moved already on. Funnily enough there was 5 couples in our friend group and 4 couples broke up this year me and my ex included. I saw an Instagram picture of him a girl and his sister but realised after she lives in his housing estate (theres 6 houses in the estate) I just never seen her before. his arm was like around het but up on the sofa and she was leaning forward and his sister was sitting on a separate chair