It’s been seven weeks since she ended things after an argument. A week later I reached out but she restricted me on Instagram for two weeks. Eventually she replied saying things like I don’t hate you and I enjoyed our time together and cared a lot and then I was unrestricted. A few days later she reached out herself telling me about a family death and assuring me she wasn’t ignoring me. I checked in again making it clear there was no pressure to reply.
This past week she posted a story that was clearly directed at me but I chose not to respond since she had left me on read before and I didn’t want to push. Then last night while scrolling through our old messages I accidentally reacted to one. I quickly unreacted but within ten minutes I was blocked on every platform. I’m devastated.
Is this typical FA behavior or something else entirely?
Last updated on:2025-12-15T17:53:02+05:30
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when she’d pop back in with reassurance or indirect posts, did it feel calming for you or did it spike your anxiety every time? like hope and dread at the same time?
i went through something almost identical. the hot and cold, the reassurance, the sudden block. i remember thinking “ok we’re civil, maybe healing” and then boom, gone. that whiplash messed with my head BAD.
She thinks you’re stalking her and you tried to breadcrumb.