I like this boy I think he likes me back..
how to not get attached with him.
and how to make him more and more obsessed with me without looking like im not interested in him
Last updated on:2025-12-16T21:12:22+05:30
how to
I like this boy I think he likes me back..
how to not get attached with him.
and how to make him more and more obsessed with me without looking like im not interested in him
Last updated on:2025-12-16T21:12:22+05:30
Comments (4)
are you more scared of getting hurt again, or of losing control once you start caring? like what part of attachment feels risky for you right now?
yeah both of them Im scared of losing control. caring to much more than him or to attach with him bc this is the 2 nd week that we are talking I dont wanna get attached
not getting attached meant keeping my life full outside of him. friends, routines, stuff that reminded me i’m a whole person. attraction grew naturally when i didn’t make him my emotional center, even though it was HARD
i liked someone who liked me back and my brain immediately went into attachment mode. i wanted closeness but also didn’t wanna lose myself again. that push pull is exhausting, you’re not weird for feeling this.