I've been feeling really frisky lately and have started doing it myself again. But every time I end up crying because I think of him. I don't want to cry, how can I get this under control?
Last updated on:2025-12-17T11:13:55+05:30
I dont wanna cry
I've been feeling really frisky lately and have started doing it myself again. But every time I end up crying because I think of him. I don't want to cry, how can I get this under control?
Last updated on:2025-12-17T11:13:55+05:30
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when you start crying, is it more about missing him specifically, or does it feel like loneliness hitting all at once in that quiet moment?
i don't know
i close my eyes to feel the fun and than I see him and renember, that he was once inside me. that he made me once this happy...
it helped when i stopped judging myself for it. sometimes i’d pause midway and just let the feelings pass, other times i’d ground myself and remind myself this was about my body, not him. it got easier with time. not overnight.
this happened to me after my breakup and it messed with my head. my body wanted comfort but my heart was still attached to HIM, so every time it flipped into tears. it felt embarrassing and confusing