so it was 6 weeks ago ...
im starting to let go of him but my heart doesnt want to i know im better off without him but than i remember all tje good times we were together for a year .
he broke up abruptly he was walking for 40 minutes outside of my flat before he broke up he was scared i could see it he could give me a normal reason why he want to break up. he said he loves me he just doesnt feel good i asked with me? he said yes i asked u feel good without me ? he said no
i asked do you think that if you leave me rn would you feel good? he shaked his head saying no . i didnt understand that until 2 weeks later when we gave back each others clothes
i asked what was the problem give me a normal reason because the fact that u feel guilt but dont know why its not enough for me
he said he doesnt love himself ( he talked about it for a while)
my question is do u think he will come back? the love is there i know that i could see it in his eyes and he said it too
Last updated on:2025-12-27T23:35:33+05:30
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i wish i could tell you something that may help but i dont even know if i even know love or relationships anymore they leave when they want and come back when they want and when they come back they come and hurt you more than before making you feel stupid for taking them back
Hey, I read some of your comment, you sound really wonderful, and you’re honestly the type of person society needs more of. I’d love to know
@DripPop138 thank you it means alot
You can't love others unless you love yourself. He's got to learn to love himself. You can't be happy with someone unless your happy with yourself.
People come into our lives for a season, a reason, or a lifetime.
it been a month since our break up he hasn't said anything my heart wants to break no contact 😭😭💔
you will be okay i promise you i am going through day 1 actually 2hours ,,, i feel like ending my life he cheated hit me and blamed me for wanting to leave saying he appologized i have no right to leave i will regret it ,,,,, but you will be fine you are a strong person and i was told break up pain is always temporarily but when you take him back thats permanent damage just remember the reason why it ended and remind yourself your person will love you way better than you could possibly dream of
do you think you’re holding onto the hope of him coming back, or are you holding onto the version of him you felt safe with during the good times? sometimes those feel like the same thing
choose yourself darling. show him what self love is
some things you cant fix but u can fix ur heart. let him fix his sometimes ppl need to fix themselves maybe therapy is the only thing u can encourage him to do but other than that he must walk this alone. (not completely) friends and family ofcs but if he broke he probably felt he is not good bf material.
when someone says they don’t love themselves, i’ve learned it usually means they don’t have the capacity to stay, even if the love is real. what helped me was accepting that love existing doesn’t always mean a relationship can survive. that realization sucked, but it slowly brought peace.
u know i always knew he felt that way i was the only one he told he opened up for me thats something he never did before with anyone sometimes i felt that he needed me more than i needed him and he said it he said that he is scared because im too independent and it scares him i didnt understand i wasnt that independent
i’ve been in almost the exact same spot. the “i love you but i don’t feel good” breakup messed with my head for months. that guilt-without-a-reason thing… yeah. i saw love in his eyes too. that part REALLY stayed with me
he said : u did nothing im not mad at u i just didnt want to put u through my pain
im not feeling guilt i just feel sad for him i knkw i didnt hurt him i became defensive sometimes ofc but because he hurt me
maybe.but only if he realizes that he needs you to love himself. But if that isn’t the case than sadly not I think.
Also 6 weeks post break up here
he said he needs to work on himself he knows that i just hope he is able to do that but in my opinion he just ran because i tried to help him to heal