moving on didn’t happen on a timeline. it started when i stopped asking “why am i not healed yet” and just let myself miss them without judging it. the time it takes is… the time it takes.
i was in a 4-year relationship too, and omg… the “shouldn’t i be over this by now?” spiral was brutal. i loved them for so long that letting go felt like erasing a whole version of me. that grief hit in waves
there's no timescale to your feelings. No-one can say today, tomorrow or 10 years time it all depends on you. Follow your own heart and feelings and things will work itself out
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do you feel stuck because you still love them, or because you don’t know who you are without that 4-year chapter anymore?
both😃
moving on didn’t happen on a timeline. it started when i stopped asking “why am i not healed yet” and just let myself miss them without judging it. the time it takes is… the time it takes.
i was in a 4-year relationship too, and omg… the “shouldn’t i be over this by now?” spiral was brutal. i loved them for so long that letting go felt like erasing a whole version of me. that grief hit in waves
You will know when you are ready to start dating again.
there's no timescale to your feelings. No-one can say today, tomorrow or 10 years time it all depends on you. Follow your own heart and feelings and things will work itself out