am a 22 year old girl i dated this guy for 5 years since i was 16 ,,, he was my first everything,,, but throughout he kept constantly cheating on me lying to me ignoring my calls during an argument even though i was crying finding excuses of why he was cheating on me ,,, and yesterday again he hit me it wasn't the first time because i found in his gmail account a notification from a dating site in the spam folder he is claiming that he doesn't know that account and the account is telling him to visit his dating account to meet beautiful asian women he started hitting me ,,, he lied to me about having an imo account,,, and he was searching for other dating sites and after he hit me he said sorry i kept quiet then i asked him what if we broke up he said that was my problem we are okay and am just looking for reasons to leave ,,, he started claiming am the one treating him badly
Last updated on:2025-12-24T05:27:16+05:30
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hi, so we need to get premium plan eventually, so when we do we'll communicate more but for now we'll talk in the group chat. I was suspended on everything but I'm free nowđ
i took him back now i regret it
i really wish i could talk to you well i need a friend and you and i seem to be going through almost the same thing
@BraveTribe871 I'm sorry it didn't turn out the way you wanted. hopefully I'll be able to afford premium next month and hopefully you also get it by that time too. I know you deserve better and you'll definitely find your person.
but i have no one i have no job my family will not care and i have no friends
Yes you did the right thing. Please leave before he does something worse. You deserve so much better đ„ș
then why do i feel guilty for leaving he told me i will never find another person who makes love to me the way he does ,,, he said its my fault am the one who treates him badly he said sorry and then said thats always my problem i leave even after he says sorry and we are okay but he doesn't change he hangs up on me when am crying he refuses to reply to my texts after i tell him am attempting to kill myself he cheats alot and then asks me why do i still keep bringing up the past he says i have also cheated as for me i told him i cheated to his face once after i wanted to feel how he feels when he cheats but i felt so bad and i thought it wasn't me and i appologized and told him i would understand if he wants us to break up but he said he forgives me i tried my best to change after that i gave him my all and that was 3 years ago when i was 18 ,,, and 3 years later he brought it up as an excuse for still counting to cheat he said men never forgive even if you change or dont ,,,, he cheated somuch that i began feeling like maybe i do deserve it now am trapped everytime i try to leave i feel like no i still deserve it the pain
@BraveTribe871 You donât deserve the pain, no one does. It sounds like he doesnât take accountability and heâs very manipulative which is toxic. If he knew he couldnât forgive you he shouldâve left you alone. Heâll always use it against you because he wants to continue with his dirty behaviour. Youâre still so young and can achieve a lot on your own. Itâll hurt to leave but itâs better than staying with him longer while he abuses you, that will truly scar you more. Leave him and build yourself up with the help of the people who love you like family. And trust me, youâll heal and find a better man. One who treats you with love and care and will never lay his hand on you.