Wishing happy birthdays

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I broke no contact on the 15th to wish my ex a happy birthday, and ironically both of our birthdays are in the month of December. Apart of me hopes that he'll wish me a happy birthday on the 22 but at the same time I really don’t want him too for fear of how that'd screw with my head. And yet I still kind of want it to have some kind of proof that he still cares about me. It's embarrassing.

Last updated on:2025-12-23T19:22:02+05:30

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CryingInside
CryingInside 2 mths ago

do you think you’d actually feel better if he did wish you, or would it just reopen the hurt a bit?

undersorrow
undersorrow 2 mths ago

i broke no contact to wish my ex happy birthday too and spent the next week overthinking every little thing. it’s confusing and embarrassing, but normal