So in January I met this guy who was caring and was willing to do anything for me to be with him buh I didn't like him so I didn't want to lead him on and later leave him so I stopped speaking to him.So last month I came across another guy who was also saying all sort of good things but I was not interested in him at first so I was not talking to him till a certain night when I was feeling bored so I decided to answer his call then one thing led to another we started talking often so I became interested in him. About a week or two speaking with him,the guy I I didn't want to lead came back begging to please let us come back together.Then I discovered they are brothers so I decided not to mingle with the both of them then I consulted a friend of mine who said I should just accept the one I met later on. So I told the guy willing to do anything for the one who made me feel happy. Everything was going on fine till last week when I was not reaching him so I told a friend of mine to contact him for me can you believe this guy proposed love to my friend. So I decided to end things with him but he kept on begging me that he won't do it again so I accepted the apology and we moved on from that.Three days ago I found him going to a hotel buh I didn't tell him what I saw.I decided to break up with him but I can seem to do it.Right now he is not responding to any of my text,I now know that I fucked up big time.All I can feel is pure regret and hurt
Last updated on:2025-12-23T19:01:03+05:30
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do you feel like you’re more hurt by losing him, or more hurt by realizing you ignored your instincts and boundaries along the way?
i’ve been in something messy like this too, choosing between people, ignoring my gut, then finding out he was lying behind my back. that regret hits HARD, like why didn’t i walk away sooner 😮💨 you’re not stupid for wanting to believe him.