It’s been 100+ days for no contact. I know I will be seeing him tonight because we are going to the same bar. last school break he told his friend that he didn’t want to talk to me. which is like weird because I never did anything to him. anyways I don’t know if he wants to talk to me this break. but I am scared if he does want to talk. I just need some advice on how to say something very mature to not talk to him without him getting mad at me if he even walks up to me.
Last updated on:2025-12-24T00:19:03+05:30
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are you more scared of him getting mad, or of how you’ll feel after if you do end up talking longer than you want to?
what helped me was deciding my line before i saw him. something simple, calm, not cold. i realized i didn’t owe him comfort or conversation, just respect for myself.
i hit 90-something days no contact and then ran into him at a party. my stomach dropped. the fear wasn’t missing him, it was breaking my own peace. that tension is REAL
be careful when he is drunk! ppl act weird and might not mean it the next day. I’d j stay my distance and protect the peace. if he can go that many days without reaching out he has no real intention of talking or taking u serious u deserve better!! If he does keep it amiable and friendly. nothing more nothing less. u got this.
thank you so much that helped me a lot!