After I removed our Photos of my wardrobe the place looks so emty. So I decided to add some notes that should remind me, that I don't text him like ' he knows where my house is. If he wanted to he would'. Any other Ideas what I should add or or what else I could do with the empty space?
PS: Unfortunately, I hardly have any photos with friends.
Last updated on:2025-12-24T03:24:41+05:30
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when you look at that empty space right now, does it make you feel lonely, or does it feel like space that could slowly become yours again?
it looks like space that I don't want but it has to go something there because otherwise it will be his space in my head. so I think it makes me feel a bit lonely. before the pictures of my Ex went there, there were pictures of my ex bff there. So maybe it was never my space but now it is
what helped me was turning that space into reminders of me, not him. little notes about how i survived the worst days, lyrics that hit, screenshots of messages where i chose myself. nothing fancy, just things that kept me grounded.
i took down our photos and my room felt… hollow. like the silence was LOUD. i stuck notes up too, stuff like “if he wanted to, he would” and “missing him doesn’t mean i should go back.” it helped more than i expected