He texted me happy birthday today and I was strong enough to resist the urge to not text him back, I'm feeling really proud of myself.
Last updated on:2025-12-24T00:49:14+05:30
Birthday Wishes pt2
He texted me happy birthday today and I was strong enough to resist the urge to not text him back, I'm feeling really proud of myself.
Last updated on:2025-12-24T00:49:14+05:30
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how are you feeling right now under the pride? relieved, sad, shaky, or all of it mixed together?
I'm not sure how I feel about it, I want to be sad but at the same time I have to keep reminding myself that we just weren't a good fit for each other
wow that's great!
that pride you’re feeling matters. when i didn’t reply, it wasn’t about punishing them. it was me choosing my peace for once. sitting with that feeling helped me trust myself again
i remember this exact moment. that birthday text hit me like a punch. i stared at my phone for HOURS. not replying felt weirdly painful but also powerful. proud of you, seriously
my ex's birthday is after tomorrow. and i am fighting not to text. she is used to me fixing things but this time i am really not. so if i resist the urge to text then it will be a big step to my healing. and i would be really proud as well.
wishing you the best of luck with that, let me know if you're successful:)