i took him back ,,,, he asked for one more chance,,, today when i told him i had severe head pains he told me to stop overthinking i told him the pain am feeling is not something i can control he said okay and that i should let him sleep ,,, i sent him alot of break up texts he did not respond but when i called him he was on another call,,,,after a few hours i called again he was on another call he ignored me the whole day now he will say am the problem i got mad fr no reason and that made him angry is it really my fault
Last updated on:2025-12-24T21:25:49+05:30
Comments (6)
how often does he make you feel this dismissed or invalidated? just trying to understand if this is a pattern or a one-off.
for 5 years straight,,, everytime when i call him crying he hangs up on me and says he is mot in the mood for an argument
sometimes he doesn't even pick up when i try to call he disconnects the call,,, he has cheated on me 5 years straight,, he has hit me more than 4 times
if i previously told him about my pain he would say he is not in the mood i get more mad he would go even 2 days without talking to me or answering my texts or calls
it’s not your fault he ignored you. your feelings are valid, and he needs to hear you without making you feel guilty for expressing them
i took someone back too and felt like i was walking on eggshells constantly. it’s so draining when they dismiss your pain like that. you’re not the problem.