I usually have this habit of texting him about the slightest thing I want to try out or rant randomly but reality hit me today that he's not there anymore. He willingly chose a life without me in it, and that should be enough to snap me back to reality because I can never understand how you claim to love someone but you didn't even give it a chance to grow further and just gave up without trying or ever seeing me physically.
Last updated on:2025-12-24T22:00:20+05:30
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did you try to reach out after realizing he left, or are you holding off to protect yourself?
we had a conversation early this month that finalized everything because after we broke up, I broke no contact after 3 months. we were checking up on each other for a while then we realized we still had feelings for each other but he said he couldn't continue a relationship with me because he feels we might not be compatible cus we were long distance for 9 months before he broke up with me saying there was so much emotional trauma from both sides and seeing each other would take a while and all other reasons he didn't want to say, I guess.
After the final conversation I had with him, I realized how hard it was for him to choose me and how hard it is for him to love me fully cus he said he doesn't think he can give me a 100%
i promise you you will be okay, you seem like a wonderful person and any guy would be lucky to have you in their lives one day a man will look at you and say you are everything i have ever prayed for ❤️it hurts am going through it i understand how you are feeling but we have to hope right because without hope then we have nothing to believe in ,,, you are someone's dream girl but first baby you need to heal for your self in order to be the best version of yourself i believe in you love🌹
Thank you 🥹❤️
honestly sometimes I wish I could fast forward the entire healing process and move on completely 😂 but I guess I've already started the journey and I can't afford to turn back.
you're also someone's dream girl btw, you deserve happiness❤️
@EpicJourney my chest is really hurting alot am trying to even wake up but hey we can do this 😂God did not create us to fall apart for other people who are okay without us baby ❤️
it’s so painful, i get it. i found journaling really helped me process the loss instead of replaying the texts in my head nonstop
I've been journaling since 2021 when my depression started to get more severe. I stopped cus of the break up in July but I started again early this December
something similar when my ex ghosted me after months of texting nonstop. thought we had a chance too… same heartbreak.
I hate when people go ghost, it's so annoying. I'm sorry you went through something like that
I'll probably regret thinking about him tomorrow lol, but at least I didn't text him this time
Hey, I read some of your comment, you sound really wonderful, and you’re honestly the type of person society needs more of. I’d love to know
@DripPop138 thank you 😊 would love to talk more but I'm not using premium 😅