Talked to someone I used to be best friends with and he asked about my ex(it's weird using the word ex cus I never imagined he'll be one)
so I told him what went down because he told me about his own complicated love life first.
He went ahead to tell me that the way I love someone is far too intense because I love wholeheartedly that no guy would actually love me back as much.
then I realized why we were no longer best friends because he always said things like this.
or maybe I'm the problem for thinking love was meant to be genuine and wholehearted.
Last updated on:2025-12-26T04:23:46+05:30
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i think the problem is in humans. when they are sure that you love them. they have the self confidence to question it and say to them self i can find someone better.
and i mean by someone better is someone challenging. some people like challenges is relationships. and those people arent our types.
merry Christmas to all of you
while some run away from challenges and go for easy relationships that they know won't favor them because they don't want to put in efforts.
I love and loved my ex with my whole body and my whole soul, it's not your problem this happens it's their problem for not appreciating, when someone really loves hell try no matter what. I saw no real objective in life and when I met her I started trying hard in life, why? because I wanted her to have a successful and good partner, but that's not what I should have done, focus on yourself because you deserve it not because others deserve the best version of you and ofc you'll find a guy who loves with everything he has, I'm one example.
thank you 😊❤️
you celebrating Christmas?
I'm not, I didn't even receive one present 😂 I'm on a night shift tonight and tomorrow just so the days can pass me by .... alone
my family don't celebrate Christmas cus they're Muslim, but I changed religion 2 years ago but I'll be home all through Christmas probably watching kdrama
@EpicJourney Christmas is overrated anyway, people spend money they don't have to impress people who don't deserve it. I'll be sleeping most of the day thankfully. I'll check in with you later this evening when I'm back at work x
how was your day?
me too. I feel like such a fool giving my all and taking his word as gospel every time only to end up heartbroken 💔. I swear all my heart does is bleed constantly cause the pain I feel at times is unbearable
sending hugs 🫂
I pray we heal completely and get the people we deserve ❤️
@EpicJourney I'm sure this is part of god's plan for us so we can become stronger in our next relationships x
oh man this is me. I love wholeheartedly or nothing at all but that's what I get... nothing at all. for all the effort and time I put in to get absolutely nothing back. I kick myself now but we're coming to the end of the year and I pray next year is better for us both.
I hope so too.
it feels like a curse cus I end up hating myself for loving easily and openly