I woke up crying after getting on for 3 mo the after she said she feels she rushed and showed she cares but feels it won't work and blocking me on everything yesterday I finally realised that we may never be together again. and that hurts more than the actual breakup because I always hoped I nearly texted her again but apparently that won't help anyone, I really tried being as good a person and genuine as I could've been but that's just left me broken and worthless I hope she's doing okay whatever she's doing.
AI seems to thi k this connection was only a catalyst and most likely not permanence do you guys agree or think maybe there can be more to it? I know I will have to move on for myself anyway but it hurts knowing she would just call it off like that and that'll be the end
Last updated on:2025-12-26T23:47:05+05:30
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do you think you’re grieving her specifically, or the version of the future you kept alive in your head even after she pulled away?
definitely both, grieving who she is and was to me she's was kind and intuitive and beautiful and a nice person I wanted to be around and I clearly showed the way I wanted to go and it turns out she got overwhelmed and broke the bridge
when someone blocks and keeps choosing distance, i had to accept that the connection mattered to me more than it did to them. that doesn’t make it fake or worthless. it just means it did its job in your life, even if it didn’t stay.
hurts the most because I gave and I still want her even though I know its the end
that moment when the hope finally dies hurts MORE than the breakup itself. i remember waking up crying too, realizing “oh… this is actually over.” i loved hard and still felt disposable. that part really BROKE me
I was holding on to hope more than anything since she broke it off and now I realised that this is actually it I broke down