Guys, I feel really confused. Sometimes I feel like I love him, and sometimes I don’t. He’s done everything for two years to be with me, and he’s always been so nice. But I pushed him away so many times because I’ve had this bad feeling about it that I just can’t explain.
Every time I reject him, he comes back even stronger. When I push him away, I miss him. But when we talk again, I don’t feel good or at peace. I don’t understand why I feel this way, and it’s exhausting
please help
Last updated on:2025-12-30T19:20:35+05:30
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I think u avoidant cuz push someone u like or care u
I’m avoidant, sadly, and I really hate that about myself. I don’t know what to do. I told him that I don’t like him at all and that he should stay away from me, but I still think about him all the time.
@NovaSnap180 good u know u avoidant try text her if u still wan him be friend first try watch read book about how to fix avoidant attachment go therapy .my ex is avoidant dismissed ex she say love me but break up be friend I say no cuz I love her I don't believe after break she push me away cold dry mean I keep reach out now I stop I'm 💔 7 month break up 67 no contact hope she miss think me I'm her her First gf hope she reach out oneday I learn read book secure
borderline syndrome
and what's this
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a complex mental illness that significantly affects a person's ability to regulate emotions, maintain stable relationships, and manage their self-image. It is a serious condition that can cause significant distress, but effective treatments are available to help manage symptoms.
@Ventara953 I'm just tired istg