my ex broke up with me. I was left broken heart that time. After a month she is trying to reach me, we talked, it looks like she hasn't been able to move on and misses me. This year, we fought a lot and finally broke up, I didn't want to break things up but she did and stopped talking to me, now she's back and saying all about her feelings, but the thing is that I want to move on and i don't feel the same way I used to feel for her, but telling this to her makes me feel guilty and I keep on blaming myself that I have hurt her feelings. I used to love her, could do anything for her, but I saw her changing towards me, I felt disrespect in the relationship. it was on and off for one year.
Last updated on:2026-01-01T20:20:08+05:30
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respect is the most important thing in a relationship bro
have you told her gently that your feelings have changed? sometimes clarity hurts less than uncertainty.
yes, I told her that. but it was not easy telling her not to hope anything from me.
it’s okay to not feel the same. being honest is the kindest thing you can do for both of you. ghosting or pretending just drags the pain out.
I did try my best in the initial stage but at that time she ghosted me, but with time I lost feelings for her. I belive my life is much better without her or being with someone who values me. but after so many days she came back, i still somehow have feelings but I know I need to break this chain as this keeps on happening again again.
same with my ex she kept coming back after months and it was so confusing. i loved her once, but moving on meant saying no, even when it hurt. 💔