This process is so painful. I can’t function properly I can’t sleep I can’t focus at work. He’s constantly on my mind. I keep replaying moments and wishing I had done things differently.
In the past it was easier for me to move on from people but this time feels different. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to fully let go.
I’ve met new people but I haven’t felt anything with them. It’s been two weeks since we went no contact and it’s unbelievably hard. He was so special to me and I can’t stop hoping for a text from him even though he probably doesn’t care.
I’ve been trying to stay busy and distract myself but some days it feels like all my progress disappears. How do you move on from something like this? The pain is overwhelming
Last updated on:2025-12-31T08:26:28+05:30
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firstly, you shouldn't hurry on moving on, it's normal to feel a lot of pain some days and others not so much. after a very special relationship, your brain is still wired in a way you might search for him, but it's important for a while to keep no contact, because right now you're like "disintoxicating", contacting him makes the same effect than taking a drug, after it the abstinence is going to be even bigger. if you feel really really bad, my suggestion is going to therapy
Literally. Idk what to do without her.
In the same boat, also been 2 weeks. It doesn’t get easier, trying to find an answer too so if it helps, you’re not alone.
I’m a little over a week with NC. I still wait for the text, expected one on Christmas but got nothing. Instead I get a friend request on Discord last night. Wtf is happening.
put ur love into an animal distract urself use positive music even scrolling through TikTok or yt also stop thinking of the past bd think of wat he did wrong.