Moving on from toxic patterns

He ends up breaking up with me cause he knows that I'll beg like a dog. He breaks up and later comes back after 2-3 months.During our argument tonight he admitted to seeing someone else and laughed it in my face. I didn't cry but something in me shifted. When I remember the sacrifices and the miscarriage I had just made me numb.I also blocked him on every social Media platform. I need serious advices because I want to genuinely move on

Last updated on:2025-12-31T20:59:02+05:30

Comments (5)

NoClosure
NoClosure 2 mths ago

when you think about moving on, what scares you more right now, missing him or facing life without the chaos he kept pulling you back into?

almostdead
almostdead 2 mths ago

blocking him everywhere was huge. i did the same after a moment like this, and it wasn’t dramatic, it was survival.

GoodDay750
GoodDay750 2 mths ago

You can get through it. day by day. breath. self care. you got this.

Jamillabobi
Jamillabobi 2 mths ago

in a loop like this too, where they knew i’d beg and used it. the laughing part… god. my ex did that once and something in me shut off too. especially after everything you carried for him, including the miscarriage. that numb shift is real. it’s not weakness, it’s your nervous system saying ENOUGH

Unhealed
Unhealed 2 mths ago

You've already taken the first step. Today is the first day of the rest of your life!