It’s been 7 days of no contact, and I’m really proud of myself. But I’m scared that if he texts me ‘Happy New Year,’ I’ll get weak, reply, and undo all the progress I’ve made
Last updated on:2026-01-01T04:21:23+05:30
I'm scared
It’s been 7 days of no contact, and I’m really proud of myself. But I’m scared that if he texts me ‘Happy New Year,’ I’ll get weak, reply, and undo all the progress I’ve made
Last updated on:2026-01-01T04:21:23+05:30
Comments (22)
if he did text, what do you think you’d be hoping to feel by replying? relief, connection, or just not wanting to seem cold?
maybe happy but sad at the same time
I just did It. Believe me, It DOES NOT HELP.
okay then I won't reply
being scared of replying actually means you care about protecting yourself
I'm scared that I may actually love him
don't respond it makes things worse only
I won't thank you alot
block him everywhere so that you won't be notified when he reaches out
I can't I'll look so childishl cuz I did it be4 and I unblocked him cuz he asked me to I just wanna to look like Idc
@NovaSnap180 yes you can do it, if you really want to move on you have to do this for yourself this is the first step
@NovaSnap180 it may seem hard rn, every time you're about to unblock or reach out always remember how you ended up in this situation.
@Snowyvibes I'll think about it tonight I wanna start clean in 2026
@NovaSnap180 ik you probably want to talk to him or still hoping that maybe things could be different but what if its not different then what
@Snowyvibes I agree with you, I blocked my ex after he blocked me and I don't feel all that anxiety anymore, it helps a lot
@Snowyvibes the problem that we never date and I'm the problem tbh he did everything for 2 years so we can be together but I pushed him countless time without reason
believe replying will undo all the progress. it will give a sense for relief for a mint and then you will start all over again.
not worth the restart
start the year with new goals and new interests and screw 2025
thanks a lot I really needed to hear this
you got this. I believe in you ^^
thanks
being proud of my no contact streak and then panicking over a holiday text. i broke once and felt like i erased DAYS of strength. that fear is real.
what do you think I should do ughhh