I really need advice because he has a way of manipulating me into wanting him again and I've fallen for it before. but I don't want to this time because I thought it was really over. and I'm starting to get over it but not fully, and I don't know what to do. I'm scared to block him BC I'll hurt his feelings
Last updated on:2026-01-05T00:56:37+05:30
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been here over and over and now Iam left empty inside..it's not worth it
when you imagine not blocking him, what scares you more… hurting his feelings, or risking your own healing again?
How long have you been with him for and how does he manipulate you into it?
from my experience, manipulation works best when there’s still access. it doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means you’re human. protecting your peace isn’t cruel, even if he frames it that way
my ex had that SAME pull. every time i started healing, he’d say the right things and i’d fold. i hated myself for it. that fear of hurting him kept me stuck way too long.
every time you meet make him feel like you're no longer into him you're moving on.He See's that you're on the better version of yourself so he wanna take that away from you.