so like I met him in September and we talked like for a couple of weeks because in the beginning of October he broke things of whit me but it only took a month because in the beginning of November he started messaging me again to sort of try again and that was going the right way until yesterday we were just talking nothing bad and he drops the same bomb as the first time and leaves me again like why did he broke the no contact the he started and why did he come back to leave me again
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when he came back in november, did his actions actually change, or did it mostly feel like words and vibes pulling you back in?
his actions changed a little bit he was more interested in getting to know me but then he became a bit distant and then it was starting to get like the first time and on the first of January he was a sort of back he was texting back fast and then on the second of January he was gone
when someone breaks no contact just to leave again, it’s usually about their confusion, not your worth.
i had someone do this exact loop. leave, come back, act hopeful, then disappear again 😭 it messed with my head so bad because every return made me believe THIS time was different.
I thought that too the second time he did it I thought this time will be different but he proved that is was not
he is an avoidant .do not Text him .you have to take this time like a prize and think about yourself and life and your relation .He will come back and apologizing soon so you must think about your relation as soon as possible .but remember he ghostes you once and he will Ghost you many .So you're not the problem here ,it is his problem.you Worth much than this actually .you need a healthy relation and not a relation that makes you overthink.the men like him do not change and im talking you that from experience
we won't understand, but I hope you heal and don't come back to him