Is it normal to seek love everywhere and nowhere at the same time?

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I wish so much to be loved by someone since she left, I've never felt so much love from someone as I felt from her but I don't want anyone else to love me, I want her to love me and I wish so much thinks between us got fixed but I know I can't.
I want to love myself over anything but I want to be with her to love myself too

Last updated on:2026-01-06T02:31:57+05:30

Comments (8)

Shygirl
Shygirl 2 mths ago

when you imagine her loving you again, what do you think it would finally give you that you feel you’re missing right now?

jacas
jacas 2 mths ago

yeah honestly I think it would but idk

Soulscape
Soulscape 2 mths ago

missing her deeply and still trying to choose myself. i stopped forcing “self love” and just focused on not abandoning myself on the hardest days

NotHealed
NotHealed 2 mths ago

wanting to love myself but only knowing how to feel worthy when it was them loving me. i didn’t even want someone new, i wanted THEM or nothing.

Woonderlust
Woonderlust 2 mths ago

It's similar to me... in one second I think I can have this love from someone else, it even cross my mind go look for someone else, but then I feel bad just my think it. I tried confort/hugs from friends and family to numb it out, seeking the kind of love I felt when I was with her. And everyone keeps tell me that I will fine other person. But I do not want other person, I want her and the feeling of being loved by her...

jacas
jacas 2 mths ago

The same here, I hope one day she comes back and she's a changed person, just as I

GlitchBoy385
GlitchBoy385 2 mths ago

sounds like what my ex is doing. he is trying so hard to get attention from someone else. I think we all do it. but does it really do any good? it my opinion its just messing with the other person's head so probably not a good thing to do right away

jacas
jacas 2 mths ago

No don't get me wrong I'm not like texting other people or like getting with other people, even if I wanted to I can't tbh, but what I'm saying is that I kind of have this feeling for yearning love