i'm getting better without him ,I really thought that I'll Lose myself auf I'll get into severe Depression but no im evolving everyday.
day 1 :I studied 2 hours and I could not complete because I was thinking of him so I deeply clean my room and take a long shower instead
day 2 : I studied for 5 hours and I think of him sometimes .
day 3 : I studied 6 hours and I think rarely about him.
So im getting better everyday .I Trully loved him but I tried to keep myself busy and that what helped me .
what helped me is : I Delete his number so I couldn't call him at night and I deleted also all my social because I want to focus in my life and stay distant/I kept being busy all day/ I tried listening to music /and espacially on day 1 I wrote a list about all the bad Things that I saw in him ./ I recommend also long showers and spending time with family .it really help.
Last updated on:2026-01-06T01:45:04+05:30
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when you notice you’re thinking of him less now, does it feel more like relief or a quiet sadness mixed in too?
like a relief actually ,in fact i have realised that i'm happy without him because when i think of him i become numb and i couldn't do my daily work so without him i have noticed that i became more prodective and espacially more happy than before
you’re really doing the work what helped me too was not expecting myself to be “over it,” just noticing the small wins like you are. those add up more than we realize.
I convice myself that it will take time to heal and that is totally normal .but in the end we all will get over it one day
day by day progress, still thinking of him but less and less. i also deleted numbers and socials and it felt brutal at first, but wow it WORKED.
I have seen the change too it really work .at first I blamed myself because maybe if I need him someday but then i discovered that I have a lit a people around me and I don't need him or his help .deleting socials helped me also to stay productive all day
im so happy for uuu, you deserve the best ♡♡
you too dear thank you❤️
I'm so happy for you, I feel the same way and it's soooo good to feel like this
staying busy is magic