This is not my story. It's my older sister story. Her husband divorced her and he have another woman. They have 2 kids from the marriage. Both of them aged 4 and 5 years old.
At that time, I told my sis "Just forget about him, only focus on your kids. He have another woman immediately because he's insecure, he's not healing".
I thought she understood what I told her but turns out she's also flirting around with another man. She neglected her kids.
She would locked herself in her bedroom at night just to talk on a phone call with that man. While leaving her kids outside watching tv.
She didn't spend times with her kids. It's so sad, and my mom the one ended up taking care of the kids. And all of us are worried of her because ofc the kids wants their 'mama'.
If she heals, if she didn't abandoned her grieving, her MOVE ON JOURNEY PROPERLY, she won't be THIS selfish and hurts other ppl around her ESPECIALLY her kids.
1. Go contact
2. move on
3. inner healing
4. self-love
5. find fulfillment within yourself
6. tell yourself that you're enough
⭐️Appreciate the people around you that stayed with you and supported you all along.
Because that man that my sister is flirting with rn? He can leave her anytime the love faded away.
But her kids? Us, her family? Will always support her and wanna be there for her. I hope she realised these before it's too late 😔
Last updated on:2026-01-07T05:40:05+05:30
Comments (5)
how are you holding up in all this?
nprocessed heartbreak can make people act in ways they don’t even recognize as selfish. when the pain is avoided, it spills onto everyone else, especially the ones who need them most. it’s heartbreaking to watch
i’ve seen something similar in my own family. after a breakup, the grief came out sideways, distraction, avoidance, anything to not feel it
I feel sorry for the children and for your sister too. I hope she finds her way, realizes her own worth, and chooses good people for herself.🤍
I mean "1. go no contact". There's typo