I don’t understand the following, maybe you can help me. My still wife does not want to move out of the house or get her own car. She blames me for the fact that she has to take out a loan, because she spent all her money on trips. I continue to ignore her and I am out as often as possible.
Last updated on:2026-01-08T06:47:02+05:30
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she blames you for the loan and the car stuff, do you feel pulled into explaining yourself, or have you already checked out emotionally?
sometimes ignoring and being out is just survival, not avoidance. you’re not crazy for doing what you need to breathe.
my ex refused to leave, refused to untangle finances, and somehow every consequence of their own choices became my fault. the guilt-tripping messed with my head way more than the breakup itself. that stuck-in-the-same-house limbo is brutal