I loved her i absolutly did.She wanted to go on nights out w her girls but i said that u shoudnt every time and that its bad but now its all over.Was i really wrong did i not trust her i felt i did i just never wanted anything to happen i pulled her too close she pushed away
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when you say you pulled her close, was it more about fear of losing her or wanting to control what she did? trying to understand your feelings here.
bit of both she always had a mentality of let me do whatever and ill learn from it which is fine for entrepeneurs artists and whatever but she went out to the nightclub every chance she could smoked drank vaped ect
you were scared and protective, not malicious. sometimes wanting control just comes from fear, not mistrust. give yourself grace, it’s a hard lesson
i did the same with my ex, got scared she’d drift away and ended up smothering her. looking back, i wish i’d trusted more.