So we broke up about a week ago and this wasn't the first time... We dated about a year and a half agowent no contact and he has ended it both times. I love him so much so I decided to get back in touch with him after that year and a half. After about a month we got back together and then he broke up with me saying that he thinks we are rushing and isn't ready for another relationship yet. He said he wants to stay friends and I agreed, but he isn't acting normal he is being dry and not talking to me like he did. I confronted him about this and he said we aren't going to talk as much now because we are just friends, but the month we were talking as just friends we called every night and talked every day. If anyone has any opinions on my situation please let me know.I need some help/advice on what to do because I'm not sure... If you have any questions about details let me know I will answer them to my best ability without giving out to much personal information.
Last updated on:2026-01-11T18:49:03+05:30
Comments (4)
do you think staying friends right now is helping you heal, or keeping you tied to the version of him you’re still hoping for
i’ve lived this loop. broke up, no contact, came back, then suddenly “we’re moving too fast.” the friends-but-distant switch hurt worse than the breakup for me. it felt like emotional whiplash
maybe he has avoidant attachment?
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