I was seeing a girl for a few months. We weren’t officially together but we acted like we were spending a lot of time together building trust and sharing emotional closeness.
Last Friday something happened that broke her trust. She saw something on my phone that upset her and right after we were intimate for the first time she told me it was over.
This is where I made things worse:
From Friday night until early Tuesday morning I panicked.I texted her constantly Sent long emotional paragraphsLeft voice notes while cryingTried to remind her of our memoriesBegged her to stay in my life somehowShared a journal I’d been writing about usPosted emotional things on my private accountinstead of giving her the space she clearly wanted I overwhelmed her. Meanwile she Removed me from her private accountTold me she could never see me the same way againSaid we’d eventually have to stop talking completely Admitted she regretted getting close to me.
Early Tuesday morning around 2–3am we spoke on the phone. She said she was done. After the call I sent a short message owning up to what she saw apologizing properly and promising to give her space.
She replied with a harsh message saying her feelings wouldn’t change. I sent one last text: “I understand and I’ll give you space.
It’s now been about 42 hours of silence on both sides.
But honestly giving her space right now feels strange. I didn’t give her space when I should have and now staying silent feels like I’m just drifting further away from her.