Day 205 of No Contact

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I've been doing so well lately. Tonight I opened Facebook and saw his girlfriend, the one he cheated on me with. She's now friends with some of his family on Facebook. It just sent me spiraling. I hate him so much. All I want is for him to get his karma! And I'm growing impatient! I want him to suffer the way he made me suffer!

Last updated on:2026-01-19T18:06:48+05:30

Comments (21)

Gowithflow23
Gowithflow23 a mth ago

what's the most desperate thing you did in a relationship you couldn't move on

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

Beg someone to take me back and I will never do that again.

Gowithflow23
Gowithflow23 a mth ago

@Unhealed what did he say when you begged him?

HappyNights677

called him crying and telling him that we belong together..may I never do that again to myself. it's embarrassing just thinking about it 😂

CozyGlo662
CozyGlo662 2 mths ago

when u wish for suffering for someone else thts when u end up suffering yourself. wish nothin but the best for him and go do u!

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

I know. When you wish bad on others it comes back on you. I can't help the way I feel. I'm so angry.

JunoNote3
JunoNote3 2 mths ago

i would suggest removing any access to him or his life, from all social media.
consider that it can actually be a blessing for you that your ex is out of your life.... following this unfortunate outcome with him, you might actually meet someome really important, or achieve some really great project. just trust life and believe this all went for your best

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

I had already blocked him on my phone months ago. We are still friends on fb, but I made my settings where he couldn't see any of my stuff. But I have been thinking about unfriending him.

HappyWander533
HappyWander533 2 mths ago

i hope u can move on soon, be strong❤️

Gowithflow23
Gowithflow23 a mth ago

I hope you can move on as well

ZVova
ZVova 2 mths ago

when you think about wanting him to suffer, is it about fairness, or wanting your pain to finally be SEEN and acknowledged

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

I want him to feel as miserable as he made me feel.

PogoBun805
PogoBun805 2 mths ago

the day you stop wishing for karma for him is the day u will truly move on

Siah
Siah 2 mths ago

I agree with you.

FlexVibe195
FlexVibe195 2 mths ago

karma will come. but look that ressentment is doing bad to you and you cannot move on. it's painful, but work on that and don't give him more of your energy. he has no value and is still stealing yours. sending you hugs.

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

I'm trying to work on the anger. Some days are better than others.

BlazeFlow101
BlazeFlow101 2 mths ago

I think eventually he will get his Karma. you are in the right place. We can take it one day at a time and heal together.

Eillmo
Eillmo 2 mths ago

this hurt to read because i remember that impatience so well.

Jamillabobi
Jamillabobi 2 mths ago

seeing the girl he cheated with get welcomed into his life like nothing happened made me feel feral. i wanted karma IMMEDIATELY. that rage mixed with grief is no joke

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

Yes exactly!

DashWave209
DashWave209 2 mths ago

Don't worry, karma comes in many ways or forms. He cheated on you but his karma might not be him getting cheated on, it might be his relationship with others failing or him getting into an accident.