what to do

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I talked to him on snap
and now I feel my heart beat fast, anxious, I wish we would talk more..I miss him, and I want him...idk to do
I can't get him off my mind

Last updated on:2026-01-18T18:19:54+05:30

Comments (12)

ColdHue
ColdHue 2 mths ago

when you say you want him, do you think you miss HIM right now, or the comfort and closeness you felt when you used to talk more

Sofietaekook
Sofietaekook 2 mths ago

Both to be honest

differetbil
differetbil 2 mths ago

this feeling is so real. for me, naming it helped. like, “okay this is anxiety mixed with longing.” not love, not a sign. just my nervous system freaking out because it misses what felt familiar

Sofietaekook
Sofietaekook 2 mths ago

yeahh 😭 but it's hard to do.. my mind is still longing for that person

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 2 mths ago

why you talking to him during nc?

Sofietaekook
Sofietaekook 2 mths ago

He approached first and I couldn't help but reply

LostSoul23
LostSoul23 2 mths ago

exact feeling. one snap and suddenly my heart’s racing, brain spiraling, wanting more even though i knew it’d hurt. i hated how one tiny interaction had so much power over me

Sofietaekook
Sofietaekook 2 mths ago

for real!!! and idk what to do about it..

greatful
greatful 2 mths ago

block him

Sofietaekook
Sofietaekook 2 mths ago

But we are still on good terms 😭 and umm tbh there's no toxicity between us even during or after the relationship, tho things ended but... nvm ig
And things ended on 2nd Nov 2025 and I'm trying to heal and even talking to new ppl a little
tho I have recovered a little but he is checking up on me time to time and it re-sets my recovery a little
and give hope, fear and lone for the attachment we once had
tho I know he doesn't want the relationship back or anything but also doesn't want to g9 fully so yeah umm idk how to explain
but I can't bring myself to block him, other than all the love and relation stuff, he is genuinely a good guy

greatful
greatful 2 mths ago

@Sofietaekook Ann I undrestand youu .it's normal to feel that way but remember do not Text first .live that Emotion ,it's Part of the heeling but do not send anything

Sofietaekook
Sofietaekook a mth ago

@greatful Yeah, I'm not texting first 🥺
thanks btw