He unfollowed me on Instagram today the only platform we ever really talked on. I know it might sound silly but I feel crushed. I pretend like I don’t care yet reading through our old messages makes me miss him and wonder about what we could have been. Now it’s clear he doesn’t care anymore. Our last conversation was over four months ago and he doesn’t want to talk to me or even see what’s happening in my life. I just want to cry.
What frustrates me most is that I can’t even tell him how I feel. I can’t reach him anymore. Maybe it’s for the best but I wish we had at least said goodbye.
Deep down I still wish things could have worked out. I know I should unfollow him too but I can’t bring myself to do it. I still care about what’s going on in his life. I even imagined him one day breaking the silence texting me out of the blue and ending this four‑month cold streak. That thought alone would make me so happy.
I guess I must have done or said something that ruined it. I should probably unfollow him before he gets a girlfriend and I end up finding out through his story.
Sorry for the rant I just needed to let these feelings out somewhere. My friends and family wouldn’t understand.
Last updated on:2026-01-16T21:20:40+05:30
Comments (4)
i know its hard but delete the texts and unfollow, itll only crush u more
Unfollow him, dear. Be good to yourself. Rip the bandaid
i had the same exact thing happen to me with a girl i talked to for over a year. I wasnt a weirdo asking her out i genuinley wanted a friend and she blocked me idk why but fuck her i was so mad and shocked lmfao but in the end what could i even do?
I feel it’s one sided. Sorry to say it but it’s better if you understand it and accept it. He clearly showed you how important you were to him. Not worth it