I feel insecure because he was better at everything.

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I feel like i am not enough. he was popular he was happy , he has a loving family, he has a really fun and interesting life. and I am just I am just a depressed girl who is trying her best to just getting up in morning ..
i feel like he thinks that i am a looser and that i don't deserve him. he never said anything like that . but I don't feel like i was enough for him.

Last updated on:2026-01-21T20:40:05+05:30

Comments (8)

LostEchoes
LostEchoes a mth ago

do you think this belief that you weren’t enough came more from how he treated you, or from how you already felt about yourself before him

Veliora838
Veliora838 a mth ago

I mean I did feel insecure before meeting him but it got really intense with him

usermkj28
usermkj28 a mth ago

i felt the exact same in my last relationship , your not alone.

Veliora838
Veliora838 a mth ago

how did you over came it

ColdHue
ColdHue a mth ago

i hear so much self-blame in this, and i get it because i’ve done the same.

Veliora838
Veliora838 a mth ago

how do we overcome this

Adorebeauty
Adorebeauty a mth ago

i dated someone who looked so put together and i felt like the sad, heavy one dragging things down. he never called me a loser either, but my brain did it for him. that feeling of not being enough messes with everything

Veliora838
Veliora838 a mth ago

what should I do ? do you still feel the same?