How do I stop thinking about him?

this guy has shown me countless times that he doesn't love me
yet I cannot stop thinking about him
i tried everything possible yet my heart still wants him , please help 😪

Last updated on:2026-01-27T09:39:28+05:30

Comments (15)

StillAche
StillAche a mth ago

when you think about him, do you miss him specifically, or the hope of who you wanted him to be for you

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

the hope of who I wanted him to be for me Maybe ? I don't even know
never been this confused

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

please tell me it gets better
I'm really tired of feeling this way
I've lost my appetite 😕

GhostUs
GhostUs a mth ago

wanting someone who kept proving they didn’t choose me. my brain knew the truth but my heart stayed stuck anyway. that disconnect is brutal. you’re not weak for it

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

it's so hard 😫

CottonCandy5
CottonCandy5 a mth ago

Just know that u r worthy of all the love. And for now, do things that make u happy. Journal, music, movies.. anything. u got this ❤️

HappyNest418
HappyNest418 a mth ago

its just familiarity that's all when you take a step and realize how they treated you its disgusting.please don't waste your life away chasing someone who never even chose you, you will regret it. we only get one life enjoy it with people who love you

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

thank you so much
I really needed to hear this

hanabanana
hanabanana a mth ago

you got this , I believe in you

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

thank you 😭

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

and do not reach out to him

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

I do feel like texting him sometimes but because of how he treated me I stop

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

I'm so sorry. it's so hard. unfortunately, there isn't a fast forward button for healing. you just gotta feel it :(
I journal, talk to my friends/family and spend time with people who love me.
time heals, I promise ❤️

GlowDroid595
GlowDroid595 a mth ago

I don't even have friends nor family
I guess that's why it hurts so bad 😭💔

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

@GlowDroid595 awe I'm so sorry to hear that. well there's always Facebook groups of this app xxo