My gf just straight away blocked me and told me through her friend that she wants to break up with me. After which her friend blocked me as well. Then my brother talked to her and she opened up abt her feelings. she said that I have been really dependent on her and I have to start focusin on myself more. She doesnt want to do long distance anymore. And she also felt frustrated thinkin she cant make me happy. Coz I do agree i can be high maintenance. So she feels like she cant meet my expectations. Right now, since my whole life depended on her, I am so bummed. I dont know what to do anymore with life. And im still not sure if she will come back. For now she told my brother, she needs her space and time.
Last updated on:2026-01-20T17:34:53+05:30
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before her, what parts of your life made you feel grounded or excited, even a little. or did everything slowly shrink down to just the relationship
there were things i liked doing. but after dating her, i got soo used to sharing every little detail of what i did to her. and now when i try to do something that i like, i instantly think like "oh i cant tell her about this now". and that retreats me from doing what i want to do. :")
i was the “everything revolves around them” person too. when my ex said i was too dependent and blocked me, it felt like my whole identity vanished overnight. that empty, lost feeling is REAL
i hope u r healing 🫂