I feel used. He broke up with me two weeks after my grandmother died (which I witnessed and where I had to call an ambulance). He thought I was too jealous and insecure, but I simply needed him to give me the right validation. He never communicated that he thought I was too jealous/insecure, so I knew nothing and had no chance/warning to work on myself. The week after he broke up with me, he messaged and texted the girl I'd been afraid of all this time... AND THEN HE CALLS ME INSCERTAIN WHILE THIS CONFIRMS ALL MY OVERTHINKING. On the other hand, chat I miss him so much, I have been watching videos of him looking so in love with me and it drives me crazy, I need us but I don’t know anything right now. What do I do???
Last updated on:2026-01-21T23:49:10+05:30
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when you say you “need us,” is it him you miss, or the safety and validation you were trying to get from him when everything else fell apart
I miss the old him but I don’t think I know him anymore because I never thought he would hurt me so much in such an evil way…
i’m really sorry. losing your grandmother and then being left like that is a double hit.
i went through something similar. i was grieving and he labeled me “too much” instead of showing up. then he ran straight to the person i’d been worried about. that kind of timing messes with your head BAD