me and my girlfriend broke up,it was a mutual decision,her mental health was bad and she needed to work on herself,the time we had was great,it was genuinely the best time i had in my whole life,we loved and still love each other alot,idk what to think,part of me is proud of her for choosing herself and the other part of me is scared that i lost her forever,im devastated,she pinky promised that she will come back after she has healed but im scared,she is the love of my life,and i still dont know why she chose to break up instead of just taking a break,i do hope with all my heart that she will find her way back to me
Last updated on:2026-01-26T04:29:27+05:30
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when you think about her coming back, are you holding onto the promise she made, or the life you imagined with her that now feels paused
loving someone sometimes means sitting in that contradiction
i’ve been there. mutual breakup, still so much love, mental health in the middle of it. i was proud of him and terrified at the same time. that mix of hope and grief is brutal
She doesnt want to hold you back thats y she broke up with u. I think you are very lucky to have met her. Hope she heals and come back to you and u two live happily ever after. Best wishes.
You are very brave!! I am going through a recent breakup as well. But, after 5yrs of emotional, physical, financial abuse I am soo done. But, the hurt will take a while to heal. Please be gentle on yourself and take it one day at a time 💙