I do not know what I will do to these 4 non natural bouquets that my ex gave me before. He microcheated on me 2 times, abandon me during the times that I need him, and other more as well as during our last talk after 2 weeks without contact. It was his chance to talk to me but he is bothered with the guy I was with that he talked to me that time bit harsh and cold and it really hurt me because he already left a lot of pain on me despite me giving him everything and thats why we already broke up for the 2nd time. Because of that I dont think he was really accountable. Yes he is guilty and sad but accountable? I do not think so.
Because of those it kinda bothers me to see these flowers that he gave me before. The other non flower gifts kinda bother me as well. I just do not know if it feels right to let his gifts still here surrounded in my room.
I love the flowers they are really all so beautiful but it kinda reminds me of him in a negative and hurtful way.
what do you guys think I should do?
Last updated on:2026-01-27T21:21:03+05:30
Comments (4)
when you look at the flowers, do you mostly see the beauty, or do you mostly feel the pain he caused?
t’s okay to keep the things you like (like the flowers) separate from the memories that hurt. i usually put gifts in a drawer or a box, so i enjoy them without feeling the negativity
my ex gave me gifts too, and seeing them just reopened old wounds. i ended up boxing them all up and putting them away for months. felt like breathing again after that.
I would personally burn them in a fire with all the other stuff he gave u