hello, I'm new here.i just wanted to say that you don't need them in your life. you don't need the person who hurt you millions of times and never cared. all you need is yourself, your family, your friends. and god. you don't need the person who betrayed you. you don't need the person who makes you loose yourself just to be with them. you don't need their twisted love. all you need is reassurance from yourself, clarity and time to reflect. no matter how good they seemed remember that betrayal is betrayal.
the world doesn't stop on anybody. the world doesn't have mercy. the world is cruel so be careful who you choose to let in. think about it... think about the butterfly effect. what if you come back to them now? what are the long term effects on your life? will it get better or will it get destroyed completely?i repeat again. be careful who you let in. you are not a bus station, you are a whole person with goals, vision and emotions.
and ask yourself, what did they do to me?are they benefiting me or not? if not, cut them off and never look back. i know it's hard ,i know it feels impossible to completely leave that one person. but you are here in this app to achieve that. remember that it's an achievement and you are amazing for choosing yourself đź’•
Last updated on:2026-01-27T18:17:05+05:30
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what helped you realize you truly didn’t need them? was it one moment, or a slow realization over time?
it is a slow realisation honestly. it took me so much time to remember my worth and just walk away. it's so hard to walk away of a trauma bond tho. but you can do it. his words and his behavior are just the reasons.he's not what i want at all he's so different. and that's it
your words hit hard. for me, journaling and leaning on my friends made the difference. giving myself permission to choose ME first helped so much
took me months to fully cut off someone who betrayed me repeatedly. leaving them was the hardest thing but the best thing
reading that just reminds me why I am going no contact
i will forever read this again and again, makes me never want to contact Them again.
im really glad to hear this🤍
really needed to hear that 🙏
true