it’s been 10 weeks and it hasn’t gotten better , but it’s gotten easier to deal with . I still miss him with all my heart and wish things could have gone differently , yet i’ve come to terms that we may never get back together . I really miss having being inlove with best friend , but i’m learning to love life by myself . I still think about him most of the time .
Last updated on:2026-01-27T22:40:05+05:30
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when you think about him, is it the person you miss or the version of yourself that existed when you were in love
sounds like you’re doing the hard work of holding space for your own heart. even thinking about him most of the time is okay grief isn’t linear
after months i still miss my ex like crazy, especially because we were best friends first. it’s weirdly easier some days, heavier others. learning to love life alone is HARD but real
we never know how much time it'll take to heal but I'm sure you're doing everything you can and that's what the most important. journal, surround yourself with people who love you, be active, don't isolate. you can do this xoxo
I also think about him most of the time but I realize that it's trauma related and not really about him.
it’s been only 19 for me and I’m so physically and mentally broken.
mine is around four days....still at the harder stages... it's okay to take the apology and closure that was never given,till heals...time will make things easier and hopefully the person meant for us will find their way to us in the meant time