how to i ask my ex to return my stuff

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so i had left my bottle and tiffin at my ex house. it's been 10 days we're in no contact and we had a really bad fight before me stopped talking it was his mistake and I left him.
I need my stuff back how do I ask him to return it I don't wanna call him.

Last updated on:2026-01-28T02:03:02+05:30

Comments (4)

4get2love
4get2love a mth ago

are you hoping to get it back quietly, or is part of you scared he might start a fight if you reach out?

Limpodio
Limpodio a mth ago

if calling feels impossible, a simple text works best. “hey, can you please keep my stuff safe? i’ll pick it up or you can drop it somewhere.” short, clear, no emotions attached

dembogur
dembogur a mth ago

i left my hoodie at my ex’s place after a nasty fight. it felt weird even asking, but i just sent a short message asking politely for it back. no drama, no calls

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

send him a text message. he can always leave them with a friend or family member or at your doorstep.