I don't know

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You left a ton of happy memories in my life, but also the worst ones. And I still don't understand - what were all these six years for? Why did you leave so abruptly and don't even try to contact me? Why were you in my life for what? I feel like the biggest loser in the world.

Last updated on:2026-01-28T12:58:00+05:30

Comments (9)

sunnygrl14
sunnygrl14 a mth ago

went through a similar situation. he would pack up and leave while i was at work, several times. ignore my calls and text until he was ready to respond. This last time i made it final.

LostSoul02
LostSoul02 a mth ago

This is the right decision

try2heal
try2heal a mth ago

what part hurts more right now. losing them, or not getting any explanation for why they left so suddenly

LostSoul02
LostSoul02 a mth ago

There's no explanation for what happened. He said he needed to save up for his own apartment and suggested we move out. I wasn't happy with that, so we broke up. But that's a strange reason...

letitgo_user
letitgo_user a mth ago

I feel you..I know you will self doubt for infinite times but you must understand that you are not a loser for getting unfair treatment in a relationship. Those happy memories were made because of you and your love. Your love made that person special. You just have to show that love to yourself.đź«‚

LostSoul02
LostSoul02 a mth ago

Thank you!

EmptyInside
EmptyInside a mth ago

asking myself the same thing too. like… was any of it real if they could disappear like that? feeling replaceable after that much history messes with your head

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

it's such a horrible feeling. I had a similar experience in the past. time is the only thing that makes things better. try to work on yourself and gain confidence that way. with every relationship, you learn what you want and don't want in your next one.

LostSoul02
LostSoul02 a mth ago

Thank you! I try