it's over

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he deleted all of his comments and likes on my Instagram pictures.
some things are confusing me though... we've been broken up for 3 months now - why now?
he hasn't blocked me.
he hasn't deleted the comments I left on his pictures + his replies to them (ex. me telling him I loved him and him replying that he loves me too).
I know this is a way for people to move on but it's not mine so it's hard to come to terms with this.
I was doing so well and this really triggered me.
he's blocked now on instagram. I'm so sick of putting on my energy on him instead of healing.

Last updated on:2026-01-30T19:01:03+05:30

Comments (16)

DoodleMo526
DoodleMo526 a mth ago

I just saw something like this tonight on Facebook, but I bet there's something comparable on IG. There's an option when you restrict an account, where you can remove all your tags for each other and deletes anything the other person posted on your page.

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

really? HM I'll take a look

Veliora838
Veliora838 a mth ago

i think he probably did that because of a new girl. maybe he lied and doesn't want her to know that you guys were together

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

but then why leave the comments I wrote on his pictures and the replies?
also, I highly doubt he's seeing someone new.

ChillLight679
ChillLight679 a mth ago

i think its because he is also going through something. honestly its a childish act but thats just how some people feel better (or think they do). he is missing you and its his way of denying himself if you ask me but i cant tell for sure. whatever it is dont overthink it

BraveNJoy804
BraveNJoy804 a mth ago

perhaps a new girl!

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

I highly doubt it.
why would he leave my comments on his pictures there? where he replies that he loves me

JoyLover684
JoyLover684 a mth ago

he clearly still thinks about you. if it’s been months and he’s just doing this, you definitely cross his mind.

Shygirl
Shygirl a mth ago

do you think what hurts most is the timing of it, or the feeling that he still gets to control the narrative and your emotions without even talking to you

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

what hurts is the thought that he's erased me

Soulscape
Soulscape a mth ago

it makes sense this triggered you. those little digital cleanups can feel like rejection all over again.

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

I don't get why he did this...

sam1esther19
sam1esther19 a mth ago

maybe he’s just trying to let go step by step

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

he's a coward so I have zero empathy for his grief

SeiraAA
SeiraAA a mth ago

my ex did the same thing months later, quietly erasing himself from MY page but keeping our old “i love you” comments on his. it messed with my head so bad. felt intentional, even if it wasn’t

natelaine
natelaine a mth ago

I don't get itttt