My ex and I broke up two weeks ago I was the one who ended it because I didn’t want to drag things out or waste his time.
At first he begged me to stay saying he wanted to wait it out. But just a few days later he told me I was nothing more than a pastime revealed that he was already married and even sent me his wedding photos.
I honestly don’t know how to process this. Was it out of spite? Was he hurt that I wouldn’t take him back? Or was this his way of finding closure?
Last updated on:2026-01-29T01:17:39+05:30
Comments (4)
Wow what an horrible person. He probably said this to hurt you and punish you for living him. I would say take the time to embrace the bad feelings instead of bottling up. And look at the reality, you dodge a bullet. Now you can make place for someone actually worth it.
when he sent those wedding photos, did it feel more shocking or more clarifying, like suddenly everything confusing made awful sense?
from my experience, that kind of reveal usually isn’t about closure. it’s about control and punishment
i dated someone who flipped like that too. begged one day, then turned cruel and revealed stuff he’d been hiding. that whiplash messes with your head so bad